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Managing Challenging Discussions and Conflict

Tutors must be prepared to manage difficult situations to maintain a supportive and productive environment. Keep the conversation on track and aligned with learning objectives, gently redirecting if it strays.
If a participant is dominating, a respectful interruption to invite others’ comments is necessary to ensure equitable participation.

Prompt students for elaboration, additional explanation, or supporting evidence. When a topic proves difficult, directly address the hesitancy by asking why it is challenging to discuss and acknowledging discomfort, to create a safer space for engagement.

It is imperative to immediately confront inappropriate language (e.g., racist, sexist, offensive comments), as inaction can be perceived as tacit endorsement. Approach such comments with curiosity and ask probing questions like “Tell us more about what you are thinking?” can facilitate a more constructive response. Structured opportunities for reflection, such as short writing breaks, can effectively diffuse tension or refocus the conversation. Be aware of cultural differences and potential language barriers. If a discussion becomes too heated or deviates significantly, deferring the conversation to a later time, with a clear explanation and resources for preparation, can be a valuable strategy. Tutors should also be mindful of the potential impact of sharing their own personal views, as this can inadvertently silence students with differing perspectives. Finally, effective time management, including starting and ending on time and providing brief interim summaries, is appreciated by adult learners.

Here’s a practical example of dealing with a conflict situation and inappropriate behaviour in an online discussion forum:


What have you learnt here about managing challenging discussions and conflict?
What will you do differently in the future?
Record your thoughts in your learning diary before you move on…